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How to Make the Law of Attraction Work for You

Hello manifesting babes!How to Make the Law of Attraction Work for You

You deserve to tap into the magic that is all around you and live a creative and intentional existence. Have you ever manifested anything into your life? I have. Two of the biggest things I have manifested were my first job out of college, and my relationship with my husband.

The thing to remember is that whether you are manifesting $1 or $1,000,000 the process is the same. One is not more difficult than the other. Where we trip up in this process is thinking that the larger things or things we place more value on are harder to manifest. Change this way of thinking.

For years, I struggled with the law of attraction because I didn’t fully understand it. Like most people, I had read the book the secret and thought that if I did enough visualization of the life I wanted then it would magically unfold. I’m not discrediting The Secret, I love that book and it set me on my spiritual path. However, I’ve come to learn through my own experiences and research that there is a lot more involved when putting the law of attraction into action.

The thing to remember is that whether you are manifesting $1 or $1,000,000 the process is the same.”

1. Accept that you are the creator
Before you can intentionally manifest things into your life you have to understand this fact. You need to accept that for better or for worse you are 100% responsible for everything in your life. You are the creator. Whatever shows up in your life is there because you brought it in with your vibration. This can be a hard pill to swallow but once you do it will transform the way you live.

2. Get specific and A-S-K
The first step to getting what you want is knowing what you want. The universe responds to specifics. The more specific you can be the better. For example, “I want a new job” vs. “I want a job that has flexible hours, four weeks’ vacation, and a wonderful boss” make a big difference. Details are important so get clear on what you want then ask for it. I’m talking verbally, out loud ask the universe for what you want. This may feel funny at first but you’ll get over that.

3. Keep your eye on the prize
Create a vision board. Having your goals and desires up where you can see them each day helps to keep you focused and specific. Find pictures from magazines or online that represent your manifestation. Think of it as a day dream that you’ve printed off and hung up on the wall. The more you can visually see the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow the more aligned you with be with it. The mind is a tricky thing but it will believe whatever you tell it. I would suggest spending a few minutes each morning looking at your board and mentally affirming what you want.

4. Make affirmations a daily routine
The act of repeating affirmations is a powerful way to shift your mind into new thought patterns. Repeat the affirmation enough and it becomes a deep belief. Make it apart of your morning routine to say out loud a series of affirmations relevant to your manifestation. Write it out and put it on your vision board. Say them every time you walk by them. Say them on your drive to work, and every time you go to the bathroom. Repeat, repeat, repeat.

5. Identify and clear your blocks
We all have subconscious blocks. We aren’t always aware of what they are or where they came from but what you can be sure of is that there are there. No matter what you tell your conscious mind it won’t make a difference if your subconscious mind is singing a different tune. In other words, all the “Money flows to me easily” affirmations won’t help you if your subconscious has been programmed to believe money is hard to come by. The beliefs you carry in your subconscious are put there at a young age, mostly from ages 4-13. Your parents, friends, teachers, the media… they all play a role in shaping your subconscious. We repeat what we don’t repair, so it is important to Identify your blocks and re-parent the beliefs behind them. Identifying your blocks isn’t always easy or fun but it is necessary. There are several ways you can do this and I will list a few below:
– Talk to someone (such as a counsellor or a trusted psychic)
– Create a list of your beliefs about the subject – be honest with yourself, open up!
– Read Judgement Detox by Gabrielle Bernstein
– Have a reiki healing session
– Learn how to tap (Emotional freedom techniques)
– When you find yourself stuck in a negative thought pattern or situation ask    yourself what beliefs put you there – note: you will always know the answer… if you are coming up with “I don’t know” it’s because you don’t want to face what you do know.

6. Raise your vibration
There are no idle thoughts. Meaning, every thought that goes through your mind affects your vibration and gets sent out into the universe. Negative thoughts block you from vibrating at a high frequency. Does this mean you need to be happy and positive all the time? No. You will not master the law of attraction by avoiding the negative. You can’t fake happy. Acknowledge negative thoughts and circumstances but don’t feed them and dwell in them. Use your emotions as a compass to guide you in the right direction. Like a lotus flower you can rise from the mud but you can’t stay there. You will never be more aligned with the universe than when you are having fun and being joyful. Make these things a top priority in your life. Whatever ‘fun’ looks like to you… do that. Don’t be afraid to get silly, play and dance. Society has us believing that playtime is for children but as adults we need it much more than the kids do… Am I right?? So go play, skip, dance, paint, laugh, raise your vibration. Vibrating high sends signals to the universe that you are on the same frequency as your desires and are ready to receive. Think of your manifestation as a song on the radio… you have to tune into the radio station its being played on in order to hear it. So, tune in by adjusting your frequency to a high vibration.

7. The universe responds to action
I hope this one is obvious but just in case it’s not I had to put it on here. Have you ever heard the story of the man who prayed to god every day that he would win the lottery? He never won… and when he asked God why God’s response was “you never bought a lottery ticket”. The universe moves when you do. And once you’ve acted the universe moves QUICK so get ready.

8. Release your Kung-Fu grip
We have our lives mapped out, we ask specifically for what we want, we visualize, then when it doesn’t unfold in the way we think it “SHOULD” we assume things are going wrong and that we aren’t getting our manifestation. This is due to our need as humans to control our outcomes. Well friends the universe does not align with controlling vibrations. You have to trust that you are being guided and that there is a plan beyond your current understanding. The path to your manifestation may not be what you would expect but when you trust the universe you will be opened up to so many possibilities. Resistance is the devil. Okay that was dramatic… but seriously. Anytime you are asking ‘how will I get this thing I want’, or doubting the path before you there is resistance being built up against your manifestation. Trust whole-heartedly that the universe has your back and that every bump in the road is just a course correction to lead you to a life beyond your dreams. For example, if you ask to meet a good husband yet all your relationships keep ending you need to understand that these people you are dating aren’t your husband. The universe has your husband lined up and he is waiting for you.

9. You better believe it baby
At some point, you have to stop asking and start expecting that you are going to get it. If you continue asking over and over what you are doing is sending out the vibration of lack, longing and absence. You have to know that your manifestation is on its way. The same way you know without doubt that when you order a package from amazon it is on its way. Once again I repeat, there is no room for doubt.

You get to create your life, your very own fairytale. I’m not perfect at this, I’m human and it is a practice. Luckily, we are in this thing together so please email me if you have any specific questions or just want to chat about this topic!

2 thoughts on “How to Make the Law of Attraction Work for You”

  1. 🙂 It is nice to come across someone who believes in the Law of Attraction; I learned about it from Ester Hicks and Abraham.

    Unfortunately, too many people think that this sort of stuff is wishful thinking.

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